Run To Win

adapted from HMC - { MATR!CS } , writen by Jason Ngu (my Ex-hsemate)

Occasionally, the inexperience of youth find itself at a lost, in the world of big things and confusing complexities. Throw in attraction, and you have what we call adolenscence. one of these is the eternal question that the young man of gentry may never understand. Why do many girls find bad boys so dang attractive compared to their, erm, "angelic" counterparts??

The psyche of a young ‘good’ male logically concludes that since its normal for people to like being treated nicely, they become 110% nice to the girl they like. You hang on to her every word, every command. Unless you are lucky enough that the girl already likes you to the same degree, you will find yourself out of luck, and most definitely left with a prevading sense of singlehood.

Taking a dig at the female psyche, most of the time ‘bad’ does not literally mean booze, drugs, and sex. More like an attitude of rebellious confidence, a will perse, to break barriers that seem to be a mere hindrance. To the girl, a truly brooding, dark figure can bring about excitement and a thrill that they can almost never feel with the ‘nice’ guy, whom they may find overtly dudes are most likely better with words and are most confident, to knw wht they (the girls) want.

So does that mean all ‘good’ men are left out to dry til their season arrives, left to the fates?? Apprarently no, becoz no matter how the girl is attracted to personality of a ‘bad’ boy, she looks for the character of a ‘good’ guy in her ideal partner, meaning underneath it all, she’s looking for a ‘bad boy’ but with a heart of gold. Why? To treat her like a lady of course (or any other way she wants to be treated, nicely).

There is always a danger of trying to assume that which is not yours. That being said, some ppl still try hard to be ‘bad’ but fall short of such glory. What happends is you mite end up a ‘wannabe’ and as far as parts of the girl population would have their say, that’s not the top of the attraction list, no matter how many sympathizers you have.

Ideals are hard to surmise; as some would say ‘ to each, her own’. As a matter of argument, how much ‘good’ or ‘bad’ she wants in you is very subjective - so stop worrying about the variables you cannot change in the equation. Work on those which you can control, like you own values and knowing what you want. Besides, most of the girls noted that they don’t leave out the possible notion of a ‘good’ guy in their lives. Even the most hardcore supporter of ‘bad’ may be swayed by a touch of genuine character. Well, it doesn’t hurt trying now does it? (just don’t overdo it, chill, and be yourself.) Another plus point for the patiently waiting ‘good’ ones is the possibility that your dram girl outlives the ‘phase’ later in life, but it should be noted that this could come, much, much later, near possibly never for some.

So when would u know that u’ve achieved a respectable degree of individuality? I guess its when you can get that old adage right for you, that being: ‘to each, his own’.

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